Who is to be Blamed?
If you look at your bank balance and you are
not happy, if you live in a house
you hate, work where and in what you are not happy with, dress and eat what you
have to not what you would like to . . . if you would like to have more time with family, travel abroad for holiday and give more to the less fortunate, then I am talking to you today!
The person to blame
for your dislike and misery is not to be found at state-house or public office. The person to be blamed or praised for who and what you have
become can be found when you stare in the mirror
– that's right, YOU!
Today is your yesterday's future, it is not an
accident – it is a result of what you planned (or neglected to plan) and
implemented yesterday. Likewise, tomorrow will not be an accident, good or bad
lack . . . it will be a product of your doing today.
"Failure to
Plan is Planning to Fail", there is no two ways about it, if you don't
plan your income, health, education, career, relationship etc you are planning
to fail it. Those who plan, prepare and
brace for the future will employ, manage and rule over those who don't
– this is the hard truth of life.
If you don't
like what you do [have become], where you live, what you wear,
school that your children go to, your business, employment etc the answer is simple,
CHANGE IT. You have the power
to change your tomorrow by changing your today – your NOW.
3-STEPS to CHANGE OVERNIGHT
answer
to ''How Do I Change?''
1] List what you don't like in your – Relationships, Personal
Achievement, Finances etc
2] List down
the reason you don't like
what you have written as response to No.1 above,
3] List what you would like 1 above to be one
year from now, 5yrs, 10yrs and LifeTime
4] List what
you can do right now aiming
to realize the one-year list {seed,
cause, sow}
5] List your personal statement commitment to follow through –see and read it daily
If you can do 1 to 5 as shown above CONGRATUTATIONS!!!
You have already created your LIFE-PLAN and you are on your way to success!!!
Remember
1. Most
people will find it easy to list what they don't like in their life but
struggle to write what they would like the same to be in a year, 5, 10 and life
time but keep at it (get pen and paper
and it will come to you, trust me)
2. When
listing what you would like to be in a year, 5,10 and lifetime – don't think on
the HOW, the how has nothing to do with you at this stage…shoot for the moon and if you miss, you will still be among the
stars – [Les Brown]. BUT you must write what you believe is "possible"
for you, especially for the one–year part.
If your one-year list is too small it will not motivate you, if too big will
paralyze you in fear and despair. It must be big enough to stretch and grow you
but not too big that you choke on it…how
do you eat an elephant? one bite at a time!
3. Personal
statement must be true about who you are, what you feel and believe about
yourself – this is your life philosophy it is the driver that moves you from
within. SEE it and READ it DAILY until it becomes your personal anthem.
4.
Those who won't DO the list on No.1, will not do No.2, 3, 4 and 5 and their
life will be exactly the same year after year but with increased frustration and
dispear because now they KNOW BETTER
but lack personal resolve
to DO BETTER.
5. How
do you change your resolve (will power)? Seek
until you find what you desire and Knock
until the doors are opened for you. HOW:
1. Become a Lifelong Student of self and what you
pursue, buy a notebook and pen, text books – read, study, workout. 2. Join a Study Group of likeminded individuals – don't
be a lone traveler…in college we had study groups for coursework and
preparations for exams – do you think life exams and coursework are simpler?
Peace be Unto you,
In His Service,Tim Kyara
iCoach|Hekima Consultant
Financial Freedom FighterHekima TV_YouTube
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