Monday, 31 August 2015

Seekers and Knockers

Who is to be Blamed?
If you look at your bank balance and you are not happy, if you live in a house you hate, work where and in what you are not happy with, dress and eat what you have to not what you would like to . . . if you would like to have more time with family, travel abroad for holiday and give more to the less fortunate, then I am talking to you today!

The person to blame for your dislike and misery is not to be found at state-house or public office. The person to be blamed or praised for who and what you have become can be found when you stare in the mirror – that's right, YOU!

Today is your yesterday's future, it is not an accident – it is a result of what you planned (or neglected to plan) and implemented yesterday. Likewise, tomorrow will not be an accident, good or bad lack . . . it will be a product of your doing today.

"Failure to Plan is Planning to Fail", there is no two ways about it, if you don't plan your income, health, education, career, relationship etc you are planning to fail it. Those who plan, prepare and brace for the future will employ, manage and rule over those who don't – this is the hard truth of life.

If you don't like what you do [have become], where you live, what you wear, school that your children go to, your business, employment etc the answer is simple, CHANGE IT. You have the power to change your tomorrow by changing your today – your NOW.

3-STEPS to CHANGE OVERNIGHT
answer to ''How Do I Change?''
1] List what you don't like in your – Relationships, Personal Achievement, Finances etc
2] List down the reason you don't like what you have written as response to No.1 above,
3] List what you would like 1 above to be one year from now, 5yrs, 10yrs and LifeTime
4] List what you can do right now aiming to realize the one-year list {seed, cause, sow}
5] List your personal statement commitment to follow through –see and read it daily

If you can do 1 to 5 as shown above CONGRATUTATIONS!!!
You have already created your LIFE-PLAN and you are on your way to success!!!

Remember
1. Most people will find it easy to list what they don't like in their life but struggle to write what they would like the same to be in a year, 5, 10 and life time but keep at it (get pen and paper and it will come to you, trust me)

2. When listing what you would like to be in a year, 5,10 and lifetime – don't think on the HOW, the how has nothing to do with you at this stage…shoot for the moon and if you miss, you will still be among the stars – [Les Brown]. BUT you must write what you believe is "possible" for you, especially for the one–year part.

If your one-year list is too small it will not motivate you, if too big will paralyze you in fear and despair. It must be big enough to stretch and grow you but not too big that you choke on it…how do you eat an elephant? one bite at a time!

3. Personal statement must be true about who you are, what you feel and believe about yourself – this is your life philosophy it is the driver that moves you from within. SEE it and READ it DAILY until it becomes your personal anthem.

4. Those who won't DO the list on No.1, will not do No.2, 3, 4 and 5 and their life will be exactly the same year after year but with increased frustration and dispear because now they KNOW BETTER but lack personal resolve to DO BETTER.

5. How do you change your resolve (will power)? Seek until you find what you desire and Knock until the doors are opened for you. HOW: 1. Become a Lifelong Student of self and what you pursue, buy a notebook and pen, text books – read, study, workout. 2. Join a Study Group of likeminded individuals – don't be a lone traveler…in college we had study groups for coursework and preparations for exams – do you think life exams and coursework are simpler?

Peace be Unto you,
In His Service,

Tim Kyara
iCoach|Hekima Consultant 
Financial Freedom Fighter
Hekima TV_YouTube

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